When addressing parenting time issues in a plan, parents will have already considered common factors, such as the child’s schedule, school breaks and vacations and transportation. However, there are other circumstances that require specific attention beyond regular scheduling.
Here are three examples of special issues that you and your co-parent need to address in your parenting plan:
The child’s age
Although it seems like an obvious consideration, parents sometimes overlook age when creating a parenting plan. Some may think that the same rules apply to children regardless of age, but this is far from reality.
For instance, infants and toddlers have different needs compared to older children. Parenting plans need to consider the frequency of visits to help maintain a bond with both parents, feeding schedules and other developmental considerations. On the other hand, teenagers usually want flexibility and control over their schedules, social lives and preferences. This, however, does not mean you no longer have a role in their social lives.
Health issues
If you or your child has significant health matters, even if the illness or disability hasn’t been a grave issue yet, the parenting plan may need to include specific medical considerations, emergency procedures and possibly adjustments in the schedule to accommodate medical appointments or treatments.
Cultural and religious practices
If you and your co-parent raise your child in a culturally or religiously diverse environment, the parenting plan may need to address how you would be handling your child’s cultural or religious upbringing, celebrations and practices. You need to address this to avoid confusion for your child and provide them with consistency.
When it gets overwhelming
With numerous considerations, it is easy to feel overwhelmed when creating a parenting plan. This is why many co-parents seek legal support to guide them through the decision-making process and ultimately find the best course of action for them and their children.