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Errors to avoid in a custody hearing

A New Jersey parent who is facing a child custody hearing may be frustrated with the other parent, but it is important to not show frustration in court. A parent who appears angry or bitter may also look like a parent who is unwilling to cooperate with the other parent, and this could result in that other parent getting custody. Parents should also avoid trying to speak for their children to convince the judge that they are the best choice as the custodial parent. Older children are often allowed to express their preferences if they wish, but a parent should not attempt to make the other parent look bad by arguing that their child needs them more.

Winning a child custody case

Child custody cases can end with unpredictable results. New Jersey parents who are embroiled in child custody disputes may benefit from learn how to strategize their case and improve their chances of achieving the outcome that they want.

Scarlett Johansson in custody battle over daughter

New Jersey fans of actress Scarlett Johansson may have heard that she is divorcing her husband, Romaine Dauriac. They have a 2-year-old daughter together. Their custody dispute was a private negotiation until March 7 when Johansson and her attorney filed divorce papers in New York.

International parental abductions and what to do

An international child abduction by a parent is more likely to happen in the early stages of a divorce, while waiting for a custody order or during a conflict between parents. New Jersey parents who are concerned about one occurring might wonder how the State Department might assist them if such a thing happens.

Co-parenting can make divorce easier on children

Reaching an amicable settlement can be challenging for divorcing couples in New Jersey and around the country, and it can be particularly difficult for them to find common ground when contentious issues like spousal support and the division of marital property are being discussed. However, even the most belligerent are often able to see beyond their personal animosities when young children are involved. Parents generally want their children to be happy and prosper, and understanding this may be all that is required for custody and visitation talks to be calm and productive.

Developing a long-distance parenting plan

Divorced parents in New Jersey and around the country are often able to put their personal differences aside and work together to raise their children. Separated couples often worry about the impact their choices will have on their children, and they may seek to make the process easier by developing parenting plans designed to keep disruptions to a minimum. This can be relatively simple to achieve when former spouses live in close proximity to one another. However, things can become more challenging when one parent moves away or enters into a new romantic relationship.

Custodial rights for grandparents

New Jersey courts recognize that grandparents usually have a role to play in the healthy development of their grandchildren. The rights of the grandparent are given consideration in some visitation deliberations, and if it is possible to include these individuals in the child's life, then accommodations will often be made. Visitation is broadly considered to be in the best interests of the child and is therefore encouraged. There are even certain well-recognized circumstances under which the grandparents may even be considered for primary custody, such as the death of the custodial parent or parents.

How to stay financially fit after a divorce

Those in New Jersey who are thinking about getting a divorce may want to do some financial planning. Doing so may help an individual come out of a marriage in relatively good financial shape. For instance, it may be a good idea for separating spouses to take a look at account balances or bank statements to get an idea of how much their joint assets may be worth.

A new school year is a good time for a parenting plan review

For many New Jersey couples, the primary focus within their divorce was how to divide parenting rights and obligations. Child custody matters are deeply important to parents, especially at a time when both parties are concerned about how the shifting family structure will change their relationship with their kids. In most cases, parents are able to work out a detailed parenting plan that places the needs of their children at the forefront. As time passes, however, those needs often change, leaving the parents with a custody schedule that may no longer be the best fit. At that point, it is time to sit down and work out a new agreement, which can be a challenge for parents who are unable to effectively communicate with each other as co-parents. As kids settle into the beginning of a new school year, parents are provided with an opportunity to review their parenting plan, and to look for areas that are in need of modification.

Basics of grandparent visitation rights in New Jersey

Many grandparents have a positive influence in the development of children, particularly when the children are not living with immediate family members. In situations like this, grandparents in New Jersey can request the right to visitation with their grandchildren, similar to how divorcing parents can ask for visitation rights with their children.